It’s a moot question to ask, “Who will be a good partner for an Aries?”
Aries what? Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn? Each planet can land in any sign at any time. Here’s a good example. My Venus is in the sign Aries. I love Aries people. Venus is love. Aries is energy. We get along easily.
But if you only look at the sun sign, you see me as a Gemini sun. But what kind of Gemini am I? My sun is ruled by Mercury and the Merc in my map is in the sign Taurus (belongs to Venus). And it’s the house of Pisces (belongs to Jupiter at night). I appear outgoing and friendly, and I am. I am also deeply introverted and philosophical. For all my life I have heard, “You don’t seem like a Gemini.” People read energy.
We have many Yin and Yang facets to our personalities. Do not make the mistake of our obsession with The One Single Truth that Modernia insists upon. Modernia’s biggest sin is the One Thing Ideology. We see it in The One God; the CEO; the Boss; the Hero; the Lone Cowboy; the Bootstraps Mentality and more. Leadership is great, don’t get me wrong, but without a balance of Cooperative Ideology, we are running a Yang Rat Race that favors the life of the Mind over the truth of Experience.
So you see, this is not so simple. Astrology is important because it requires your thought and energy. Astrology requires your reflections. You must ask it questions. Astrology is ultimately, an Oracle. You learn it from hearing the stories about the Archetypes and learning how your own experience teaches you these milestones of living. We all have the same stories, but different!
Everyone was born. What’s your birth story? Everyone was teased. How did you handle it? Everyone is proud of something. What did you achieve? Many of us reproduce. How’s the parent experience going for you?
It’s perfectly fine to understand the Aries Archetype, but it is important to learn where it fits within you. If you know it’s place in your experience, you will gain wisdom. You gain personal power when you know where to apply your instincts and when to hold them back.
When people ask…
“What goes with an Aries womun?” the answer will always be off. Then the doubters with say….
“See, Astrology doesn’t work. That doesn’t apply to me. I’m an Aries and I never do that!” People want their individuality to be recognized and generalized questions, when applied to individuals, do not apply to any individual.
The best way to know if you are compatible with a person it stop, look and listen to her/him. Notice how the person reacts to you. Feel yourself in reaction. Then…
Reflect, Repent, Reboot
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